Baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more!!! It’s dawned on me recently that despite my marriage and a couple of other long term relationships, I’m not sure if I’ve ever been ‘in love’. What even is that? How does one know? What if my ‘in love’ is different to my partners idea of… Continue reading What is love?
Almost two years ago I met a man who I knew early on would become very important to me. We both carry a lot of baggage and have been slowly finding our way around having a relationship. He knows that at times I have been frustrated by this but there have been times that I… Continue reading Love
So I’ve been watching Eastenders for years and it has never failed to amaze me how the brash and bolshy women seem to attract the most men. Stacey Slater being a classic example. She’s an attractive brunette with a good body. That’s enough to attract most men. She’s also loud, rude and a serial cheater… Continue reading The Stacey Slater effect!
I’ve not written a post for a while as I’ve been busy moving house and a month later have only just got my internet connection sorted out! How did people live before the internet? Anyway, because I’ve had a stressful few months moving house, I hadn’t spent much quality time with my kids and the… Continue reading Holidays
I’ve been out today with my brother to an all day rave (😎🙌🏻🤘🏻), not my usual bag but thought I’d give it a go. It’s still going now but I needed to come home and be Mummy as the kids came home from their day with their Dad.We ted off having lunch in a local… Continue reading Island life
I was out on a lunch date today in a nice pub in a lovely local town. We’ve both got kids, have been married and are both apprehensive about relationships and getting fully involved in one. We are both aware that emotions make things messy. This is true not just for ourselves but also for… Continue reading Kids
This post isn’t about dating, although it is about being single and one of the implications of this. Just before Christmas I was faced with the reality that the catchment secondary school that my children would be attending is horrendous. I realised that there is only one way to ensure that they do not attend… Continue reading Decisions, decisions 🤔
🎤🎼Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies🎼🎤 said no woman in a relationship…ever! I’ve been reflecting on the destructive nature of lies. I have trust issues, which stem from various different men (and women). It gets to the point where, psychologically, it’s very difficult to regard any one man as different to the others… Continue reading Honesty
I was out at the weekend with some girlfriends for a laugh and a dance. I really enjoy a good boogie and despite being sober have very few inhibitions on the dance floor. We went to a cocktail bar first where the girls enjoyed a few drinks. The music was good and we had a… Continue reading Trust
Been thinking recently about declarations of love. Telling someone you love them can be difficult to say, it’s a vulnerable place to be. There’s always that fear that feelings aren’t mutual. Personally I prefer actions over words. Sometimes we test the waters first, drop a few hints. I’ve noticed a certain somebody says in conversation… Continue reading Everyone loves you! 🤔
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