Matching on Facebook dating, I was impressed with this man. He was forward with planning a date and seemed to grasp the concept of masculine and feminine energy. He booked a table for drinks and snacks. I was early- I always am. So I popped into the pub for a quick trip to the bathroom.… Continue reading Mr Lamb Shank
I’ve done this twice now. I’ve been thinking about it for about a year, following a local speed dating organisation on social media. Then the organiser got in touch with me via my Tinder profile and invited me along. After my experience with The Magician, I decided to go for it so I booked my… Continue reading Speed Dating
5 dates over 7 weeks. All out in public. No pressure for anything physical. A true gentleman. The type of guy that always makes sure he walks on the road side of the pavement. Charming. A deep thinker. Charismatic. Emotionally intelligent. 6’3”. Slender. Looks after himself. Good job, self employed. Own home. Organises social events… Continue reading The Magician
Having finally ended a 6 year relationship back in July 2022, I decided to spend a period of time on my own. It was great at first. I took the kids to the Caribbean in October, I spent time reading about relationships and began to engage in the type of love for myself that I… Continue reading The smell of burning rubber…
I write poems for happy occasions (birthdays, weddings, anniversary’s) and for sad ones (funerals). This has been a sad week. I might not be any good at it but I don’t care. I thought I’d hear from you today, A sign that you’re thinking of me. A little bit of normality, A reminder of what… Continue reading A Poem
It’s holiday season, there’s been a heatwave, I’m about to board a plane to Greece for a week. I’ve got to get my body out. I’m dreading it. It’s no secret that I’m not a big fan of my body. I don’t know many women who are. I was chatting to one of my friends… Continue reading Beach Bodies
Baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more!!! It’s dawned on me recently that despite my marriage and a couple of other long term relationships, I’m not sure if I’ve ever been ‘in love’. What even is that? How does one know? What if my ‘in love’ is different to my partners idea of… Continue reading What is love?
So I’ve been watching Eastenders for years and it has never failed to amaze me how the brash and bolshy women seem to attract the most men. Stacey Slater being a classic example. She’s an attractive brunette with a good body. That’s enough to attract most men. She’s also loud, rude and a serial cheater… Continue reading The Stacey Slater effect!
I’ve not written a post for a while as I’ve been busy moving house and a month later have only just got my internet connection sorted out! How did people live before the internet? Anyway, because I’ve had a stressful few months moving house, I hadn’t spent much quality time with my kids and the… Continue reading Holidays
I was out on a lunch date today in a nice pub in a lovely local town. We’ve both got kids, have been married and are both apprehensive about relationships and getting fully involved in one. We are both aware that emotions make things messy. This is true not just for ourselves but also for… Continue reading Kids
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